Dating Recap Support
Help, questions and feedback
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Email datingrecap@gmail.comCommon questions
Where is my data stored?
Only on your iPhone. There's no account and nothing is sent to a server, so we can't see or recover it. See the privacy policy.
How do I back up or move my data to a new phone?
In the app, go to Settings → Export all data and save the file somewhere safe (like Files or iCloud Drive). On the new phone, use Settings → Import from backup. Importing only adds things you don't already have. Your iPhone's own iCloud or computer backups also include the app.
How do I delete everything?
Settings → Delete all data. This can't be undone, so export first if you want a copy. Deleting the app also removes its data.
Can I lock the app?
Yes. Settings → Privacy → Lock with Face ID. It also hides the app's contents in the app switcher.
Will reminders show names on my lock screen?
Not by default. If you want nicknames in reminders, turn on Settings → Notifications → Show nicknames in reminders. You can also turn reminders off for one person from their page in People.
What's a "rep"?
Any step that counts: talking to someone new, asking someone out, being asked out, or going to a group event. Every rep counts, whatever the answer.
What does "Their move" mean?
After two answers in a row like "vague busy" or "no reply" from the same person, the app suggests the ball is in their court and stops nudging you to chase. If they reach out, tap "They reached out" on their page.
We're exclusive now. How do I tell the app?
Open their page in People and turn on "We're exclusive". Goals for meeting new people pause, and reminders about anyone else stop.